My Crazy Jacked Up Family week 3

Jul 6, 2025    Dave White

A Christ-centered marriage begins with a man’s commitment to love his wife as Christ loves the Church — with sacrificial devotion, humility, and strength.


In Ephesians 5:25, we’re called to a powerful standard: “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” This is not a passive love — it’s sacrificial, intentional, and deeply committed.


The Three Core Needs of Every Wife:

1) Security

— A woman thrives when she feels safe — emotionally, relationally, and financially. Husbands are called to work diligently and trust God’s provision, creating an atmosphere of trust and peace in the home.

2) Leadership

— Biblical leadership is not about control or domination but about Christlike initiation. A husband should lead with love, be the spiritual priest of the home, and guide his family with humility and purpose in conjunction with his wife.

3) Communication

— Open and honest communication is the lifeblood of any thriving relationship. Meaningful connection is built through intentional listening and heartfelt dialogue.


A Call to Mutual Love

When husbands and wives honor one another above themselves, their marriage becomes a living picture of Christ and the Church. It’s in the giving, the understanding, and the shared burdens that God’s love is made visible. Let’s pursue marriages that glorify God — where both husband and wife prefer one another, serve one another, and walk through life together in love and faith.