Spiritual maturity is not automatic. We are called to grow in our faith—to develop a depth in our character and relationship with God that goes beyond surface-level appearances. It’s about being better on the inside than we are on the outside.

The Example of Job: Integrity in the Storm

Job’s life is a profound example of this inner strength. Despite devastating losses and intense suffering, Job remained faithful. His reaction revealed a depth of faith and integrity that could not be shaken by circumstance. His inner life—his trust and commitment to God—was greater than his outer trials.

As a result, God restored Job, blessing him with even more in his later life. His story reminds us that God honors those who are bigger on the inside than they appear on the outside.

The Four Stages of Spiritual Growth

Maturing in faith is a journey—a process. It often follows a progression through four spiritual stages:

“Give me” – This is the beginning stage of faith, often marked by self-centered prayers and needs.

“Use me” – As we grow, we begin to seek purpose and offer ourselves in service to God.

“Search me” – Maturity brings a desire for God to refine us, to reveal what needs to change within.

“Make me” – The highest form of surrender, where we ask God to transform us into who He desires us to be.

Even the Prodigal Son followed this path. Upon his return, he didn’t say “give me” anymore—he said, “make me a servant.” That’s the heart of maturity: surrender and humility.

True Maturity: From Self-Focus to Service

An essential sign of spiritual maturity is that we begin to meet our own needs by meeting the needs of others. This is the heart of servant leadership and Christ-like love. Just as Jesus came not to be served, but to serve, so too must we live. We become bondservants of God—willingly giving our lives for His purposes, not out of obligation, but out of love.

Character and Communication

Two key marks of a mature believer:

Character: Doing the right thing even when no one is watching. Integrity is a fruit of deep faith.

Communication: The lifeblood of any relationship, including our relationship with God. Prayer, listening, confession, and obedience are vital for ongoing growth.

Conclusion: Growing Into God’s Blessing

Spiritual growth is a lifelong journey. Like Job, we are called to develop a faith that can withstand trials. God blesses those who are faithful, those who are bigger on the inside—full of character, humility, and love.

Let us move beyond surface faith, asking not just for blessing, but for transformation. May our prayer be:

“Lord, make me more like You.”